Wednesday, March 17, 2010

American Idol

I have been watching American Idol now that I have more time. I like most of the contestants. For some reason though, they don't seem to be incredibly unique. This is Siobhan Magnus. She gets my vote. She is the one who is willing to take more risks and try some incredibly high notes. Her performances seem well thought out. I don't think she makes mistakes. I've never heard of a glass blowing apprentice before. Good luck Siobhan!

Monday, March 8, 2010

Pictures from a Birthday

The birthday girl started her day by getting her music practice done. It was a no school day!
We headed to Build-a-Bear Workshop with the coupon we received for a free $12 animal and arrived shortly before it opened.

Someone decided to upgrade to what she said was a Portugese Water Hound. This girl knows her dogs.

After a bath, some time was spent looking at clothes and accessories. Lots of hugs and a couple of toys for Pepper.

We gave our sweetie the family gifts in the early evening.

A little sisterly love and a Zhu Zhu pet.

And lots of surprises and more sisterly love.

Those Zhu Zhu pets are funny little things with their noises and scurrying. Low maintenance ; )


The next one to have a birthday turns 18. Yikes!

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Happy 10th Birthday!

You are growing up so fast. Where did the days go? We love you!

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

A New Life

I have always worked outside the home--my parents home and my own. My first job was delivering papers. That was a rather unsuccessful and short-lived partnership venture. Then, I began babysitting. I babysat many hours a week. That was followed by a job in a nursing home kitchen with a lot of cool college kids. You get the idea. Until this week, I had been working in the insurance industry. 27.5 years in the insurance industry. Most of those years were as a part-time employee working 29.5 hours in 3 days plus extra unpaid hours at home.

No one accepts part-time employees. Co-workers are unhappy that you aren't in the office every minute that they are. Managers can't get over the fact that you aren't there for a face to face meeting any time they want one. No one thinks about the fact that you aren't getting paid for as many hours or given as many benefits or are the only one at your level without a window seat because you are PART-TIME. No one has been around as long as you have to remember that you were a supervisor before you went down a level because, while I was allowed to become part-time when my youngest was born, I couldn't make that change and still supervise.

Being able to work part-time was a gift though, given to me by a man who was within a few years of retirement. I was able to spend more time with my kids. The days pass quickly and time never goes in reverse.

Last week I was given the ultimatum. You will work five days a week. No more starting early. No working from home for you. The only compromise I was able to get was that I could work two of the days from an office that would cut my commute, slightly. All of the work, all of the experience, all of the history in my head didn't matter. It couldn't outweigh the fact that I was part-time. I was also going to have to start working for the manager who has given me grief for the past few months. If I said up, she'd say down. There were also some uncomfortable situations that I was in because I didn't dare ask a question that might hurt her ego.

So now I have a new gift. The gift of a new life. At home. With my kids. Every day. I will have more time to listen and to teach. I won't be always yelling and exhausted. Maybe my teen will start her own work life because now I'll be able to give her a ride to a job until she gets her license. The cobwebs on the walls and the spaghetti sauce splashed on the refrigerator won't stay there until we clean because company is coming!

It is going to take a while to establish a new routine, but life is good!